Redeeming the Past

Weekly Sabbath Survey
Redeeming the Past  —   1-11-2014
 
Recently a friend and I were discussing a movie in which Tom Hanks played  Walt Disney. The story was of Walt working with the very difficult author of the  Mary Poppins book in hopes of writing a screen play for the movie, which they  eventually did.
 
Saving Mr. Banks was about Ms.Travers redeeming her childhood  through the book she wrote. Any of us who grew up knowing our parents  really were very imperfect, could relate to this woman’s emotion. Her  father was known as a drunk and a n’er-do-well. His illness was overlooked  and never mattered to much of anyone who knew him, except his family. Ms.  Travers loved her Daddy, but was so ashamed of who she was because of him, she  grew up and left Australia for London, changed her name, and developed a  true English accent to cover her outback Aussy roots. 
 
Few people I have ever known had the ideal childhood. Most every family is  dysfunctional to some degree. Imperfect parents rear imperfect children,  and the cycle continues. Too many times fear, shame and rejection go with  us into our adult lives. Most of the time it is buried so deep that  when it manifests, these emotions are unrecognizable as the driving  force in our lives. We think these wounds and emotions and even the pain of  them, are a part of our personality, but they are not! 
 
As a Believer adult my parents’ baggage from their own childhood  and from their post-war trauma was revealed to me. Then, I was able to  redeem my parents and my childhood in my mind. I finally got over the scary  monster my Daddy was at times, and embraced a sweet and tender man who  tried very hard and provided well for his family. When my own emotional problems  became obvious, I was able to see how difficult things were for my  Mama and loved her all the more for what she went through.
 
Every time music, literature or film has presented a story like this  about very difficult family life, the Lord has used it to  make progress in my restoration, making me a little more redeemed about my  own family. Being wounded in our soul takes a long time to be fully healed. Step  by step we allow ourselves to forgive, to understand and to accept,  that most of the time our parents were doing the best that they knew  how in the circumstances.
 
When I first began in ministry, I was still far from being very much healed  of my childhood traumas. Others could see the anguish and rejection  that clung to me. When people remarked about these things, without any  ministry to me, just a critique —  it made me think I wasn’t OK.  A blow to my confidence in the Lord. In reality, I wasn’t all right, but I  knew that I was OK in Jesus. I was doing what I could, where I was, with  what I had to work with. If some of us waited to be PERFECT like all  those people who think they are so superior to us in every way, we would never  tell a soul about Jesus, never see wrong and denounce it. We would be  forever waiting for the “right” time.
 
If any perosn embraces Christ, he/she has  become brand new; the old things are passed away, and, look at it this  way:  a new life has begun. 2 Corinthians  5:17  
 
Charlene  Reams Manning
Believer  in the Lord Jesus Messiah
 
Forward any WSS  you feel has merit. (without changes, please)  
Comments are welcome. Subscribe or contact me at: RedHen1944@aol.com 
Advertisements

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s